Rae Abileah
NationofChange / Op-Ed
Published: Saturday 25 August 2012
While it may seem quaint that ladies fussed about lipstick and putting steak on the table by 5:30pm while the boys did the “real work,” there’s nothing cute about the full picture.

Mad Women Descend on the Republican Convention

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“When one door closes, another dress opens,” says an ad exec on HBO’s hit show Mad Men.  I admit it: lately I’ve been mad about Mad Men, scrambling through episodes with a strange intrigue of looking through a portal to a time when lady secretaries were totally subordinate to their suited bosses.  Gawking and groping women was par for the corporate course, and brandy and cigarettes were meeting staples—just another day at the office.  It’s a fascinating look into a foregone era, one most of my twenty-something colleagues never experienced and possibly can’t even imagine.

While it may seem quaint that ladies fussed about lipstick and putting steak on the table by 5:30pm while the boys did the “real work,” there’s nothing cute about the full picture: sexual harassment in the workplace, back-alley abortions, limited access to birth control for the privileged few, rampant homophobia and racism, glass ceilings that must have seemed shatter-proof. 

Now some fifty years later we can look back with an incredulous (and satirical) eye – yet some of the key things that set us apart from those bygone days seem to be reemerging.  This past year women’s reproductive rights have come under threat in an alarming way.  Heck, Michigan State Rep. Lisa Brown couldn’t even say the word “vagina” without being censured by her conservative male colleagues.

The latest assault came last week when Republican Missouri Senate candidate Rep. Todd Akin said that victims of “legitimate rape" don't get pregnant because "the female body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down."  Someone quickly posted a Facebook meme that said “‘Good news – your body shut down that rape baby.’ Said no doctor ever.”  If elected vice president, Paul Ryan is determined to shut down Planned Parenthood health centers and cut women off from crucial health care.  Ryan voted against the Lily Ledbetter fair pay act that allows women to be paid the same amount as men. Republican values prioritize building killer drones and new weapons of mass destruction over providing affordable, accessible healthcare.  Women’s rights are taking a serious pounding from anti-choice legislation to economic inequality that disproportionately affects women.  The new GOP mantra: Women’s rights? They can take what’s left. 

I’m part of the generation that embraced Take Back the Night rallies in college, marching through the city streets declaring that our short skirts were not an excuse for rape. It’s the generation that stages readings of Eve Ensler’s Vagina Monologues and reclaims the word “slut” in national walks.  I grew up wearing pants, wielding power tools, and playing soccer.  My first gynecology appointment was at a Planned Parenthood.  To me and many of my classmates at Barnard College, protesting the Afghanistan and Iraq wars was a natural extension of our feminist principles and understanding that occupation wouldn’t lead to liberation.  Women’s leadership and self-determination are key to a successful, thriving society.  I’m of the mindset that if you can’t say the word vagina, don’t legislate it.  And there are thousands of like-minded women across this country, Mad Women whose outrage is fueling powerful action. 

We, and our vaginas, are angry that our bodies are repeatedly violated by attempts to control our access to healthcare and our responsibility for our futures. But we won’t allow that anger to fuel violence or rage.  Instead, we creatively unleash our voices for equality.  As Eve Ensler said, “My vagina’s furious and it needs to talk.” 

That’s why CODEPINK is organizing a vagina posse to speak out about the war on women at the Republican National Convention in Tampa next week.  We’ll take to the streets in giant vagina costumes and sing “Take Your Vagina to the RNC,”  a new convention anthem written by the troubadours of Emma’s Revolution. We’ll join the Planned Parenthood pink bus for a powerful rally to reclaim the streets.  And we’ll stand with the countless organizations – from Ensler’s VDAY to UltraViolet to NOW – working to ensure respect for our bodies. 

The past couple of weeks in the lead-up to the RNC I’ve found myself saying “vagina” on public radio, something that I’ve certainly never done before.  It’s strangely empowering.  Just saying the word takes the mysticism out of it – makes it less intimidating.  Vagina.  Vagina.  Vagina.   My body, my choice, my voice. 

Unlike Mad Men’s world of advertising, which seeks to fool and trick people into believing in something (usually superficial), activism is about making the invisible truth visible.  We are in the business of exposing reality—yes, sometimes at the cost of what may seem vulgar or inappropriate.  Putting daylight on the truth can illuminate the way forward.  One vagina at a time. 

It’s time to close the door on the era that trumpeted the subjugation of women. And it’s time we unzipped the lies and aired the truth: vaginas are powerful and beautiful, and whatever your genitalia, everyone deserves to have access to reproductive care and full health coverage. 



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11 comments on "Mad Women Descend on the Republican Convention"

Theodore Ziolkowski

August 27, 2012 2:28pm

Mr. Mitt Romney;

There is nothing "Low" about President Obama listing Senator Atkin as a Republin and linking him with you. If you can remember back to when you were at CranBrook High School and played Football, you were a memnber of the football team. As a member of the team it was stated over and over again, that it was one for all, and all for one. Well the same thing is true of when you join a Political Party. It is one for all, and all for one.

Therefore you and Senator Atkin represent the Republican Party and what each of you say and believe, is owned by the other. That means his stance on Abortion is your stance on Abortion, Especially, seeing as his stance is what is in the Platform of your chosen Political Party, the Republican Party which you are representing. You must also accept the following as your chosen Political Beliefs:

Destroy Medicare as we know it and replace it with a voucher program for seniors.

Give women no choice, with no exemptions, in making personal healthcare decisions.

Make the Bush tax cuts permanent -- and give huge new tax breaks to the rich on top of them.

Raise taxes on the poor and middle class.

Pretend climate change doesn't exist and massively expand oil drilling.

Ron in NM

August 25, 2012 6:24pm

Abortion is probably one of the most divisive issues in America today. I'm not "Pro-Life" and "anti-Choice," but I can see why some people aren't exactly in love with late-term abortions.

But why would any sane person be against IUDs, condoms or the pill? Reason would convince you that if "conception-control" was widely practiced, there'd be a helluva lot less abortions, and only the Pope still argues against that (guess he doesn't want there to be any fun in sex, just heavy consequences).

I hope you have a brave protest in Tampa, but watch out for "Isaac," the tropical storm that may become a hurricane. I have to admit I hope it puts a damper on the Tea Party Festival they call an RNC Convention.

Richard Avard

August 25, 2012 4:48pm

I am a Goldwater republican, but the Genie is already out of the jug; the majority of the American women are never again going to let the law make it illegal to end a pregnancy. I believe that Roe Wade needs to be repealed, and that this abortion issue needs to become a State issue, Those States that want abortion rights can vote them in , and those States that dont can vote them out. This is supposed to be the beauty of our system; 50 different entities with 50 different government models to fit the society which lives within those states

shanbritt

August 27, 2012 1:12pm

It really has to be a Federal law, not state by state. If states can decide, then only *some* women have rights to a choice, not all. Federal law makes abortion available to All women and those who are against it for religious or other reasons, just don't have one. It would also force women who live in non-abortion states to travel to other states for abortion services, which is unfair, expensive and chaotic.

Patricia Dixon

August 26, 2012 5:06pm

Unfortunately 50 different laws that could discriminate against women having access to abortion, pre- natal care and host of other services that have to do with women health, is not a very smart way to go.
Why is it that men are so interested in controlling our bodies, I don't see women making it illegal for men to have a vasectomy, much less exploit the theme of penises on national TV.

yellowdogdemo

August 25, 2012 9:14pm

If you don't want abortions, you need birth control. Besides abortions cut down on crime.

Greenwitch

August 25, 2012 1:35pm

It is mind-boggling to me that we are even talking about this again. But don't just blame the religious fanatics and the cracker @ss moron men; blame all the women who aid and abet them. They are traitors to our gender, and a big reason why the "War on Women" has any traction at all. Wake up, ladies! We need to reclaim Clinton's philosophy that abortion should be " safe, legal, and rare," as well as the iconic bumper sticker: "Against abortion? Don't have one." We need to fight this as a freedom of religion issue; my god has no problem with abortion, but is really gung-ho about birth control, and my right to believe that is just as valid as that of any anti-choice person. We need to push back hard against these folks with the old but effective rallying cry: "Keep your laws off our bodies!" and make it very clear that we will NEVER give up the rights we gained thanks to the tireless work of the '60s and '70s feminists of both genders.

luxartisan

August 25, 2012 12:34pm

If white guys are truly honest with themselves, they have to admit that on some level they secretly yearn for that White Men Have All the Power fantasy. The difference is the GOP is openly advocating for it to become reality once more. They see all the trouble as stemming from the Civil Rights and Women's Liberation movements and think everything was so much better before they ruined everything. I'm sure they'd like to rescind both the 15th and 19th Amendments of the Constitution of the United States, too.

Greenwitch

August 25, 2012 2:02pm

Yep....some men just can't give up that power-over mindset that's been the norm for thousands of years. What really bothers me are the women, many of them as strong, smart and educated as any feminist, who choose to bat for the other team to make the rest of us subservient again. They want to slam down the lid on Pandora's box, as they see women's sexuality as something evil and needing to be controlled. We can't let that happen.

richardspahr

August 25, 2012 11:37am

My penis, along with my mind and soul, support you. Give 'em hell in Tampa, and thanks for your efforts in giving the issue a voice.

Norman Allen

August 25, 2012 11:17am

Leave it to GOP to take us back to Medieval times: women enslaved to men, workers enslaved to bosses/factories; rationality enslaved to irrationality (Church/GOP/Corporate bosses), human enslaved to imaginary divine (a mythical creature used by tyrants to control humans for profit/power/wars)!